I think you wore neutrals best, now you've earned it, wear what you want, be that fashionista! Work it girl! Lol, just kidding, I don't really talk like that.
But seriously, I see both sides, maybe there's a balance that can be had. Only we know what's best for ourselves, sometimes we choose to ignore it.
Wow, I think I just went a little too deep for a fashion article.
Thank you for your service!